I have been holding space, usually that means I am giving someone else the expanse, to express themselves without judgement. I have always been the one to be there for someone else, but always forgetting myself, was disrespectful to me.

So I have been holding space for myself, showing up for myself, cooking, walking, expressing myself creatively, stitching my bag, and allowing my feelings to come and go without judgement.

Showing myself the love I have always freely given to others, I am a giver, always have been. In the past that has cost me a lot at times, losing myself in the exhaustion of being there, but not giving myself the respect that I deserve.

There are so many ways to show myself love, respect, and acceptance, just like I would extend to someone outside of myself. It feels good to remember, I matter too!

God reminds me every day, if I fill my cup, I will have enough for others. I enjoy being a giver, just not at my own expense anymore! Amen