When was the last time you have invested into yourself, and I am not talking about buying that new pair of shoes or a new purse. When was the last time you invested into you?

Just like the car needs an oil change, we as humans need maintenance as well! That new pair of shoes will only feel good while you’re opening the box, then in the closet they go. I’m also guilty of the closet with clothes I never wear, of the purses collecting dust. Then I would be talking about how I cannot invest in me, don’t have the resources to do so.

I would always have more than enough for everybody else, but never for me. Instead of buying whatever it is, put those resources into you? Go get that message, pedicure, Reiki, or maybe some acupuncture, something that will actually contribute to your health.

Getting that message means you can actually get some restful sleep, a better mental state for your loved ones to be around, including you. Loving yourself enough to pour into your cup, so you have enough to pour into your family and friends. I know you would make sure your partner, kids, family, friends have what they need.

Stop the negative talk, or guilt when putting yourself first, that is an old outdated thought pattern that need to be ejected from your mind! Choosing yourself is choosing your loved ones, because you cannot give from an empty cup, loving you is loving God, because God lives inside us!

Choosing you is part of healing and breaking generational curses that have plagued so many of us and our families over many generations.